The software will remain undetected and you will not have to worry about your partner deleting his messages as the software will store them and you can use them as proof.
Where do you stand on this issue? What to do, what to do? Although not all of these online relationships will amount to a physical meeting, the emotional heartache and upset caused when you find out your spouse is Facebook cheating or has the capacity to cheat on you is enough for you to want out of a relationship.